Seriusly sometimes i am speechles..x tahu nak kata apa.Takut cakap cam ni- Dengki, cakap macam tu-Suka dia patah hati,-Cakap cam ni-x serious. Of course i dun want to add on the pain at the same time i know they dont want me to pity them but to understand them and give them strength. I speak from what i know, what i see.Sometimes i think what i say may sound cruel, but i actually want them to see the clear picture, they shouldnt give up and stay broken, they have so much more good things coming their way. Seriously i feel them but i just dont know how to put it into words.
Most of my friend are girls. I have never met a broken men. I guess men are too ego to show how they feel and they always cover up by saying things that may sound hurtful to us girls to hear or maybe sounds "macam bagus la sangat" . Tapi dalam hati,hanya tuhan yang tahu. Men lagi pandai kabur pandangan dari kesedihan yang dorang alami. Standard la..lelaki was not made with much emotion and feelings tapi x bermakna dorang x rasa. Thats why they are always put in the position of the one yang cause trouble and tears to the girls.
To dear friends, Marriage is a long journey. Tada sapa nak kawin hari ini bercerai esok. Do not think if you marry a whealthy man you will be happy, or if you marry someone with good looks you be the luckiest girl alive, or marry someone who is romantic means it will last forever. Things can change in a blink of an eye after marriage. Cause that time, setan semua dah retire nak kasi korang feeling feeling jiwang tapi nak ranapkan je rumahtangga korang bina, and that time baru u learn to adapt to the person you so called Love. Its not a bad thing, its the sweetest thing tapi you have to work hard together. So choose well, insyaALLAH if jodoh however ALLAH will help you trough though how bad it is.There is no perfect match or perfect marriage without a few elements like, understanding, sacrifice, give and take, tolerating, and there is no perfect marriage without quarells and fights.But make sure lepas gaduh tu u make amend and berbaik semula.
Its better to regret and get hurt before marrying someone, knowing what he really is and make a good judgement that after. If things were not meant for you, let it go.If you force it, or try too hard pun x bagus cause later when he is happy with you, you will regret cause u had to do all the hard work. Some have been together for too long and suddenly break up just because of a silly thing. Sometimes it is faith showing you he is not the one for you. Think it the positive way. He made someone for everyone of us, he would not want us to be alone. Thats why he created Adam & Hawa to be together. But we have to work towards it. IF you tried and did not work out, jangan putus harapan. Things were not meant to be like you thought it would be.
I wish i could give the same thing what i have to my friends, thought it may not be the best thing for them but for me it is..cause no one is alike. It will come to you, when the time is right.Have faith in him and he will always lead you the right way.If he wanted you to be alone in this world..he would not have created friends for you. Dont be sad you lost someone, be happy you found him, you got the chance to love him and be thankful that even you lost him, you have made new friends besides him.
it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.... and you know what, there's a reason why we met people around us. to learn.
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