::Family o'mine:: Sarah & Papa::

.Satu hari Papa nak beli burger. Berhenti tepi jalan lalu melintas. *noter::burger kat depan workshop kat bukit katil memang sedap*. While papa beli burger, Sarah duduk kat seat papa sambil 'Perasan' tengah drive. Siap membebel cam Papa dia. Ntah napa ntah. Skali dia nampak papa dia datang balik kat kereta. Dia nak sorok konon dia dah hilang. Dia suruh mommy cakap dengan papa, 'Sarah dah hilang'*note:: ni la dialog dia bagi aku sumpah*

Jadi dia sorok kat belakang seat mommy. Sebab dia ketot so memang x nampak la sangat kecuali jenguk ke belakang.

Mommy:: Papa , sarah dah hilang.
Papa:: Hmmmm....

*sarah diam tengok reaksi papa cam biasa je, dia bisik.

Sarah:: Cakap papa mommy, 'Sarah dah hilang'.
Mommy:: Sarah kata dia dah hilang.
Sarah:: *masih dalam nada berbisik tapi kuat* No No say 'Sarah dah hilang je, cuba carik' .Jangan cakap i cakap. (pelik aku budak ni).
Papa:: sarah dah hilang, alamak xpela biar la dia.
Mommy:: biarla dia..
Sarah:: *Masih dalam nada berbisik* Mommy cakap la dia  'carik la sarah'.
Papa:: X nak la carik Sarah biarla boleh ker??.
Sarah:: X boleh sarah dah hilang kena cari.Nanti how nak balik?.
Papa:: Xpela nanti dia balik 'sensiri' *note:: cara Sarah cakap sendiri->sensiri*
Sarah:: eh Papa x boleh you mesti cakap,' Alamak must cari Sarah now'.I x boleh balik sensiri.

*Masa ni Sarah dah keluar dari persembunyian berdiri sebela tengah tengah seat, sebab dia jelas kat papa dia.

Papa:: Xpela nanti dia balik la esok boleh amik dia
Sarah:: eh kenot..u must go carik now. U must say 'alamak Sarah hilang, must carik'.
Papa::There sarah, ni u ade ni..*sambil pegang tangan dia.
Sarah:: no again i nyorok balik then u cakap eh.

Ahahahah...sarah tertipu tapi yang kelakarnya dia cam buat wayang pulak. Siap bagi dialog apa kena cakap.
Now papa and sarah always cannot agree. Here are some moment maybe both of you forgotten. Bila sarah tengok ni, dia sedar " Mother papa sayang i jugak kan?".where did you ever get the idea Papa x sayang you Sarah sayang?. Tapi balik tu dia still irritate and bertekak dengan Papa.


::U were the 1st, papa learning how to hold you safe::




::He always made sure u slept well at night, safe from any harm. U use to love sleeping on him. Sleep soundly::




::He will play with you every night when he comes home, U use to wait for him::



:: He always include you in anything, making sure you learn a lot as you grow::

::Proud of you no matter where he is.You were his chubby toy and he was your Hero::



::Teaching you to love nature and swim::



::My World:: Membebel x Ingat::

.Listen here, aku bukan apa, ko slalu cakap orang lain punya kisah lama.

.Aku x bodoh, tahu ko pun sama.

.Cuba ko fikir eh, sebab ko la orang tu kena tendang of course niat ko pun bukan baik sangat.

.Mesti ko pun ade buat salah kan. Aku tutup mata.

.Sebab janji benda x bersimpang sudahla.

.Actually aku pun salah gunakan ko tapi fairla.Ko sengal sangat.

.Tapi lately ko beriya nak aku percya apa ko kata.

.Nak beram pun siap nak buat aku percaya ko bak permata.

. Tahula nak aku kata ko azimat berharga.

.Ko ade nilainya tapi x setanding yang lepas lepas tu.

.Maaf ler..terima kasih je la.

..............................................................................................................

.Skang banyak sangat orang suka amik kesempatan atas kesengsaraan orang lain.

.Japan kena quake orang lain sibuk  kutip derma.

Japan relax cool je, mereka ni sibuk huru hara.

.Nak kutip derma boleh tapi takut kutip kutip masuk poket sendiri.

.Sian, ade quake dalam poket ker? memang dari dulu lagi ye x?.

.Scam email dari bank sampai  sampai la pasal natural disaster banyak dah.

.Internet ni dah jadi weapon untuk merompak orang.

.Merompak cara yang susah ditangkap or kadangkala senang.

.Lagi advance dari toyol sebab, aku kat sini aku rompak orang kat US.

.Terer x aku, orang bela toyol pun x pernah dapat buat cam ni.

.tapi kadang kadang takde hasil jugak.

.Kesimpulan aku dah malas nak bukak email sebab banyak Sampah.

..............................................................................................................

.Sampai bila x nak cakap.

.Dia dah okay, jadi u pun mula la bercakap.

.Kan x best bila diam diam macam ni.

.If x diam macam ni mesti x tido lagi sampai 3, 4 pagi.

.Kalau x diam macam ni mesti gelak nampak gusi.

.If x diam macam ni mesti banyak benda leh buat lagi.

.Dah la yang lepas tu lepaskan la.

.Xkan nak sampai gempa satu lagi happen kat depan mata.

.Sampai sengsara baru nak bertegur sapa.

.X bestla macam ni.

.Yang lain di tengah tersepit and terkepit.

.Bukan ke aku slalu yang ketinggalan.

.Tapi kenapa aku skang yang jadi cam Gam.

.

::My World:: Jalan Jalan in KL::

.Last weekend , naik KL. Lepak at Sri Kembangan-My sis house. Dearest Hubby ade kerja sikit in Selayang. So he chuck us at my Sis place. Sampai jer as usual my sis akan tanya Sarah,'Yaya nak go where?'. As expected her short reply, 'I nak go take trolly kecik at IKEA'. She had it plan all the way, nak main ngan the small trolley at IKEA.




::Sofea Hannah all ready for Gym and Ikea::

 

.Tengah siap nak keluar, Sarah sibuk timbang berat dia.'Wow mother, dah 3 meter?'. Tergelak la kami ramai ramai. Mcamana tu Sarah, timbang leh tahu tinggi mana?. Lepas makan Ice cream dia timbang lagi. 'Wa dah 4 meter da'. Tapi yang kelakar bila Nt Uwa timbang, 'Oh you 1 KG'. Bleh pulak macam tu. So we went to IKEA for the love of Meatballs and Daim Cake. Suppose to meet my friends tommorow but hoping to push it to today.Just cant wait to have some Gossip Girls Time. But not of all them can come. Just  a few and thats enough for my remedy.

.I did not enjoy Ikea that much cause, (1).my Hubby xde.selalu dia ada. (2.) My girls ni cant stop acting hyper.(3.) Banyak sangat orang, though we had no problem with tables and paying but too many orang x best.(4.) Duit x penuh...ahahah.Ramai orang you want to browse some things for more than 1 minute ade je orang lain sampuk. Tension@!!! I dunno if i will ever Enjoy Ikea now. This is the 1st time introducing Sofea to Ikea. Sarah is well trained.

Lepas Ikea we went home. Penat!! tido lepak and kasi my two girls tido. Yaya yang x pernah tido afternoon pun took a quick nap. She got up later and went to 7-11 ngan my sis. Her favourite time always. Came back with 4 sticks of Ice cream.Spoilt Brat!!~~

I start to sms my sweet gal pals. AS usual Zakiah was a regular must. She is the one Yaya adores. Well she has all the hooks up. Malam tu pulak my Sis nak bawak makan kat Sukhumvit, Kampung Baru with Roro and her Husband. Me and my sis, our age gap not that apart.Normally some of my friends are also her friend and vice versa. So okay malam tu the plan was Sukhumvit->Z and Alice->??.



::Sini la makan, mcam thai authentic food gitu.Not bad la 6 stars::





::Sarah all excited at Sukhumvit::





::Dari Sukhumvit wich suppose to be in Thailand nampak KLCC
Awesome kan kan kan!!::



Dinner was awesome, the food was nice, nice atmosphere. Siapa sangka tgh kota, ade kampung dalam kampung ade cosy place cam ni.heheheh the view..awesome.KLCC, Sarah yang x pernah nampak close up KLCC waktu malam was so excited. Siap hafal hafal lagi. She ask me to snap a pic to show to her papa. Roro and Khai with their 4 months baby Airyn came late so i had my dinner first. 

My friends arrive just nice, around 10, Call my hubby masih busy so we head of to Rasta kat TTDI.Another cosy place. My friends ni mmg awesome untuk bawak g tempat menarik.  we met Aini and all girls, minum teh sambil makan waffle with ice cream. Aini's treat...hehehehe. Sayangnye xleh nak lama sebab i have 2 extra lil ones with me. Kdang i rasa kesian kat my friends sebab if they come with me, they cant lepak lama and sometimes i envy the free time they have. but their are understanding, never made me feel not fitting in. Ahh thank q my lovely senioritas..

Well, yeah at Rasta, TTDI met Scha Al-Yahya and Awal Ashari lepak with their friend. Kami sekadar menjeling lalu je. Heheh cute both of them look so young and vibrant and jolly happy. Nasib zakiah x sedar. Tapi dia tu Mamarazi. all the hot stuff dia tahu. But dia more to people than artis. Ah if Halily was here maybe would be fun. Eheheh...* x pedulik la kan they pun nak have some friendly time with their friend.

Around 1am baru gerak balik. Sarah was hyper as she had coke..ahh mmg sah la dia ni hyper tapi tertido jugak kat dalam kereta.

Zakiah and Alice drove me back to Sri Kembangan. Husband was a dear and sporting waiting for me. Carried Sarah in and Sofea too. My friend hang around for a while. They went back at 3am and later i went to bed too. I conclude this visit was awesome. 10 stars.

The next day we visited Nenek, Bali and her lil adorable Delyssa who which i almost kidnap cause she did not even cry when i carried her to the car and drove off. If not for the mother, Nenek shouting oi..dah le oi..i would just brought me home another bag of baby. Delyssa is Sofea's age but older by 5 months. I think she would be walking soon. A happy baby, always smilling and laughing buat hati aku terpikat sangat la kat delyssa over other babies..ntah la..

Well thanks friend and family for having me over.The End.

::F.R.I.E.N.D.S:: What are friends made of::

.I have wonderfull friends.I am lucky to find those people. And when i feel down i think of them. I count them as my blessing. Yeah i have to admit, When it comes to my friends i am proud of them. What are they made of? Stars and fire, colorfull lights,warmth and joy,lil decoration,gem that are so precious.

::Friend::

. A Friend is someone you talk to everyday and never runs out of topic, or someone you havent met for a long time and when you see them its like we never parted.

.A Friend is someone who takes you out for a walk, laugh at your silly jokes and listen to your non amazing stories even though their are suffering from a broken heart.

.A Friend is someone who protects you from getting ditched for the second time even though it means creating some new enemies in the making.

.A Friend is someone listen to you, lift you up when you are down and always have your back covered.

.A friend who greets you at the door with a sincere smile, hugs ur kids and make them laugh and at the end of the day say she'll miss you around.

.A Friend is someone who calls out of the blue just to know how are you, how are you coping without even talking about themself first.

.A Friend is someone who knows all about you, your weakness and your strength and still love you and is always there to support you.

.A Friend is someone who will pause for a while in the midst of rushing people and life just to think about you.

.A Friend is not everything but some of them  are some things you have to keep.



::This one is dedicate to one of my friend, Sofea::





::My World:: WiKi wicked::

.Tengah study tengah malam.

.Hari ni study kisah Nabi.

.Banyaknya x tertahu lagi.

.Kenapala zaman aku exam dulu xde Wikipedia ke WikiLeaks ke.

.Wikileaks tu kalau leaks kan soklan spm pun best kan.

.Skang ni click je jeng jeng jeng dapat macam macam.

.And yet orang muda zaman skang ni x pandai nak gunakan.

.*Saya sedar saya dah berusia*.

.Okayla dah x penat nak sambung balik study.

.Nak bukak bab lain dah ni.

::Family O'mine::Sarah Bebel.com::

::The Dot.com::
Sarah & Sofea playing in her ball hut Sarah got for her birthday. Sofea just after milk, i burp her but prob not enough. Sarah's bag was near sofea, and when sofea turn to meniarap (which she always do now).She muntah on Sarah's bag. Automaticly Sarah marah "Sofea u ni muntah dot comla(muntah.com). my bag dirty dah ni.How now?"( dalam gaya mak mak). Sebab Sarah suka bebel. SO i always say. Sarah u talk too much. U can bukak website. Bebel.com. Dia kenakan adik dia pulak. So i have one Bebel.com and one Muntah.com at home. Papa is her Popia.com.

::The 'Gardening'::
My Brother boy brought Sarah to Jaya Jusco funland. Before that Sarah jatuh and her legs ade scratch. After playing, my brother brough her to Guardian to buy plaster. Kepoh and kecoh luka xdela banyak. Satu badan dia tampal plaster. Dah le sekotak nak dekat RM 5. Neon plaster. Balik tu dia punyala eksited nak story kat us. Bila dia masuk je pintu, my mom tanya 'Sarah, u pergi mana?'. Sarah answered,' I go JJ best. Go play at preground, then i go 'Gardening' buy platser'. Semua tegelak cause she actually meant I went to GUARDIAN (the Pharmacy).

:: The Bengang::
:Sarah tengah main with Sofea.Sofea dalam stroller ketawa ketawa. Agaknya dah lama sangat dia dah bosan. Jadi dia merengek. Sarah pulak, diamanahkan jaga Sofea jangan kasi nangis. I was not far ade je sebelah dorang. Saja nak tengok camana Sarah handle adik dia.Dia merengek lama Sarah cuba tenangkan dia. Lama lama dia pun fed up ' Sofea, dah la jangan la nangis je. U ni..apa lagi u nak. I dah bengang tau'. ceh budak kecik ni. tau pulak nak bengang.

::My World:: Laptop to Nigeria-Scam pakai nama Royal Bank of Scotland::

(Tercalar sudah nama mu RBS)

.Selalu dengar pasal 'Awang Hitam' dari Nigeria ni suka scam orang. Aku pun x sangka aku experience the same stupid thing. Apa dia fikir Malaysians/Asians bodoh ke. Aku rasa diorang yang bodoh sebab fikir cam tu.

.Refer to post aku pasal laptops tu, ade la dapat beberapa feedback and question pasal laptop tu jadi aku reply. Tapi ade satu email ni beriya sungguh bertanya.Beremail berkali (sebab aku bukak email lambat).Sampai add aku sebab nak beli.Aku ingat malaysian cina ke sebab nama Debby. Bila dah confirm,mintak akaun nak bagi payment and amount. Tapi dia kata laptop ni dia nak suh aku pos ke Nigeria. Bila baca je nama negara keramat tu, alamat mcm x betul je. Tapi aku layankan. Kita xleh diskriminsi orang.

So lepas bagi aku details dia tanya berapa nak bank in. Aku check ngan DHL sebab dia nak suh pos pakai DHL je. Banyak cikadak kan? aku cakap postage RM 6**.00. Dia kata okay. Dia akan bank in 2k pakai RBS (Royal Bank of Scotland). Alamak!!! satu lagi bank bermasalah. Paling banyak scam. Korang mesti pernah dapat konon email dari RBS ni kan cakap nak bagi duit ke hapelah. Aku tanya kenapa x pakai maybank ke apa. Dia kata dia dari UK. Lek ele...lagi la..So aku cakap hold your payment x payah la sebab aku cm x caya.

Alih alih email sampai dari RBS kononnya yang money dah pre-approved (ade ke cam ni)

TRANSFER ORDER


The Wire Transfer Order from Royal Bank Of Scotland Online Banking has been Approved.
TRANSFER NUMBER :- SW1100595495MY

We have received a TRANSFER ORDER placed by our Customer (Debby Cameron) the sum of (RM 2,000.00) transferred to you (Siti Maria Bt Abd Rahim) as a payment for the item "Fujitsu E8210" bought from you and the money has been successfully processed and has consequently been APPROVED.


The financial details of the transaction are stated below:

Transfer Receipt Confirmation


Order Status: APPROVED
Transfer Payments Order Available AVAILABLE
Date Placed 22/03/2011
Order Status TRANSFER CONFIRMED
Transfer Order Number SW1100595495MY
Billing Information:
Transfer Status: WIRE TRANSFER CONFIRMED
Payment Method Visa Card/Cash
Card Number 4***********5643
Exp.. Date 04/05/2012
Name on Card Debby Cameron
Street Address 47 Thorpe Road,Eastham
City, State, Zip London, E6 2HS
Country United-Kingdom
Services Purchased: Direct Transfer /Cash
Item Amount RM 2,000.00--------------> menurut bankers xkan dalam rm mesti dalam amount dia.
Transfer charges *******
Total Amount transferred to seller RM 2,000.00

Item Unit 1 Unit
Shipping Services DHL EXPRESS SERVICE
Auction Site MUDAH.MY

Seller's Information: Use our online Transfer to pay for online purchases, the companies / individuals you buy from all over the world. This is an important security feature and certainly is better than having your credit card number transmitted all over the Internet. Our Service is secure, and we screen our merchant accounts very closely in order to protect the sellers and the buyer

(ni dari email tapi ini isi je,format dia bukan cam ni)

TRANSFER ORDER

Dear Siti Maria Bt Abd Rahim,


We would like to notify you that total payment of RM 2,000.00 has been made for the item "Fujitsu E8210" bought from you by "Debby Cameron" and the payment has been thoroughly screened and held with us but it will be credited into your bank account immediately you ship the item out to the given address. Immediately you ship the item,forward us the shipment scanned copy receipt that will be given to you from the DHL office after shipping the item out through this email address for verification so that we can credit your account. We hope to hear from you soon.

This is the shipping address below:


Name:Adetayo Oluwaseun
Address:No 1 Sola omole Close Ologuneru,Eleyele.
Town/City :Ibadan Oyo State,
Post-code:23402.
Country :Nigeria.
Contact Number:+2348067987082


Thank you for using Royal Bank of Scotland® We look forward to serving your online auction payment better in the future.


Thanks for your co-operation.



Yours sincerely,


(Kat sini siap ade signature si Magaret la kononnya)

Margaret Keane,


Executive Vice President
2001-2010 Royal Bank of Scotland,16 London Road Forest Hill, LONDON, SE23 3JA--->cuba ko google alamt ni jumpa la related scam blogs. Ni ntah mana mana bukan RBS langsung.



Then dia terus cakap,'Please send my item tomorow morning'.Cam nak cepat je kan. Pastu aku cakap, actually postage x cukup. kena tambah lagi RM4**.00 so means skang postage dah sama dengan 1K. Orang gila/ menipu je sanggup bayar cam tu banyak nye postage. dah sama dengan harga laptop. Waaaa orang ni x kisah kan berapa aku mintak. Ini sebab dia tak transfer apa apa.

Esoknya aku pun call RBS KL to check n to report samada email yang aku terima tu dari mana mana cawangan RBS.

                                               moneytransfer_rbs@officeemail.net.
                                                             (ni email menipu)
                                                   cameron.debby@yahoo.com
(email client la konon.FYI org uk jarang skali guna dot com(.com).Mereka akan guna dot uk (.uk))

Jawapan mereka of course la TIDAK. Setau aku pun bank slalu ade domain sendiri. email mesti dot bank(.rbs) tu sendiri. Jadi cam sial kan scam ni. So aku buat bodo tunggu la mangkuk punya Nigerian ni contact aku, email,phone call ke apa. So sampai petang xde apa. Aku ingat dia dah tahu la yang aku dah figure out. Rupaya pukul 5ptg dapat call dari number +23...Nyatanya, code negara Nigeria.'Hello this is Jeffrey from Royal Bank of Scotland calling for Siti Maria. Her Money is with us, have she posted the item?' Demmit you berani jugak kau kan. RBS kat uk beb. Ko call dari Nigeria apa hal?? xde pun RBS kat Nigeria. Bila kitorang cakap dia, kami dah check sumer xde such thing as hold duit-post barang-duit masuk. Dia mati mati nak convince.Tapi agak gelabah bila dia kata kenapa kena call bank sumer. duit ade sini la. Dia mesti ingat kita no bodoh. hak tuih!! marah aku. Pastu dia suruh aku online check email. Debby tu nak cakap. Aik camana lak dia tahu.

So dengan panas hati aku online. Debby tu buat la cerita cam mana barang dah post ke,dia risau duit xkan dapat balik. Hapa lagi..aku dah google banyak dah kes cam ni. Kebanyakkan dah post dah barang x dapat duit. Nasib x ramai terkena. Ade tu recall balik parcel so selamat. So kami pun bongkarkan la rahsia dia. Siap aku cakap aku call RBS uk lagi tuk check. gelabah dia tanya kenapa aku call. Ek suka aku la. Bil tepon aku. ahahha..dia tanya aku number nak call RBS check duit dia (ler konon x bersalah la and risau duit dia). Ko kan dari Uk xkan x tau number bank ko. Aku tau number Maybank.

Lepas tu aku cakap, u deal with RBS then u tell me. Aik terus senyap. Aku masih lagi nampak dia online. Tapi malas nak carik gaduh kan. Aku cakap jugak number call aku tu dari Nigeria. Ternyata dia terkejut macam mana aku tahu number dia. Mesti dia ingat xde caller id. tula ko bodoh sebelum apa apa fikirla..all posibility. ko ingat malaysia cam Nigeria ke. haish...bengong. dah malu, dah terbongkar..dia senyap. email aku pun x reply.

::Pengajaran::
Nigerians memang kaki penipu. Datang kedai pun sama je. Nak berlagak kaya ade duit. Try sumer benda pastu suh simpan /booking siap cakap kalau x simpan dia marah tapi x datang beli pun.Jalan bergaya cam orang berkenan sangat. Kalau ko 50cent ke R Kelly pun belum tentu aku nak woi. So aku belog benda ni supaya sesiapa yang ade Nigerian nak beli laptop. KO memain kan je dia tu pastu blah...

::My World:: 19 Hadis Tentang Wanita::

.Xder kerja setelah aku belek belek website ni (ceh browsing la maksud aku), terjumpa artikel ini. Lepas baca aku rasa kenapa la aku bazirkan banyak sangat pahala ALLAH nak bagi aku.

.Kenapala aku ketegaq sangat ni, sayu lak hati aku bila baca ntah la kenapa.

.Tinggi darjat ku sebagai ibu, isteri dan wanita namun kadangkala aku pun x sedar.

>Sekadar Renungan<

1. Doa perempuan lebih makbul daripada lelaki kerana sifat penyayang yang lebih kuat daripada lelaki. Ketika ditanya kepada Rasulullah akan hal tersebut, jawab baginda, “Ibu lebih penyayang daripada bapa dan doa orang yang penyayang tidak akan sia-sia”.

(start sudah aku punya terasa and sedih)

2. Apabila seseorang perempuan mengandung janin dalam rahimnya, maka beristighfarlah para malaikat untuknya. Allah mencatatkan baginya setiap hari dengan 1,000 kebajikan dan menghapuskan darinya 1,000 kejahatan.

 

3. Apabila seseorang perempuan mulai sakit hendak bersalin, maka Allah mencatatkan baginya pahala orang yang berjihad pada jalan Allah.

4. Apabila seseorang perempuan melahirkan anak, keluarlah dia dari dosa-dosa seperti keadaan ibunya melahirkannya.

5. Apabila telah lahir anak lalu disusui, maka bagi ibu itu setiap satu tegukan daripada susunya diberi satu kebajikan.

6. Apabila semalaman ibu tidak tidur dan memelihara anaknya yang sakit, maka Allah memberinya pahala seperti memerdekakan 70 hamba dengan ikhlas untuk membela agama Allah.

7. Barangsiapa yang menggembirakan anak perempuannya, darjatnya seumpama orang yang sentiasa menangis kerana takutkan Allah dan orang yang takutkan Allah,akan diharamkan api neraka ke atas tubuhnya.

8. Barangsiapa membawa hadiah, (barang makanan dari pasar ke rumah) lalu diberikan kepada keluarganya, maka pahalanya seperti bersedekah.Hendaklah mendahulukan anak perempuan daripada anak lelaki. Maka barangsiapa yang menyukakan anak perempuan seolah-olah dia memerdekakan anak Nabi Ismail.

9. Tiap perempuan yang menolong suaminya dalam urusan agama, maka Allah memasukkan dia ke dalam syurga lebih dahulu daripada suaminya(10,000 tahun).

10.Perempuan apabila sembahyang lima waktu, puasa bulan Ramadhan, memelihara kehormatannya serta taat akan suaminya, masuklah dia dari pintu syurga mana sahaja yang dikehendaki.

11.Wanita yang solehah (baik) itu lebih baik daripada 1,000 lelaki yang soleh.

12. Aisyah berkata, “Aku bertanya kepada Rasulullah, siapakah yang lebih besar haknya terhadap wanita? Jawab Rasulullah, “Suaminya. “Siapa pula berhak terhadap lelaki?” Jawab Rasulullah, “Ibunya”.

13. Apabila memanggil akan engkau dua orang ibubapamu, maka jawablah panggilan ibumu dahulu.

14. Wanita yang taat akan suaminya, semua ikan-ikan di laut, burung diudara, malaikat di langit, matahari dan bulan semua beristighfar baginya selama mana dia taat kepada suaminya serta menjaga sembahyang dan puasanya.

15. Wanita yang taat berkhidmat kepada suaminya akan tertutup pintu-pintu neraka dan terbuka pintu-pintu syurga. Masuklah dari mana-mana pintu yang dia kehendaki dengan tidak dihisab.

16. Syurga itu di bawah tapak kaki ibu.

17. Wanita yang tinggal bersama anak-anaknya akantinggal bersama aku (Nabi s.a.w) di dalam syurga.

18. Barangsiapa mempunyai tiga anak perempuan atau tiga saudara perempuan atau dua anak perempuan atau dua saudara perempuan lalu dia bersikap ihsan dalam pergaulan dengan mereka dan mendidik mereka dengan penuh rasa takwa serta bertanggungjawab, maka baginya syurga.

19. Daripada Aisyah r.a. Barangsiapa yang diuji dengan sesuatu daripada anak-anak perempuannya, lalu dia berbuat baik kepada mereka, maka mereka akan menjadi penghalang baginya daripada api neraka.

“Jadi, janganlah sesekali kita merasa lemah. Wanitalah sebenarnya yang membuat seseorang lelaki itu kuat. Itulah salah satu sebab mengapa Nabi meletakkan wanita setaraf pada lelaki dan tidak lebih rendah

::My World:: Ceramah Motivasi x diminta dari Kawan aku::

.Spm kan esok is out. My friend came over that day, main main with Sofea and Sarah. She a chattered accountant. Bagus ka tu kan? Datang dengan sis dia. Sis dia is a SPM candidate waiting patiently for her result. I ask her what she wanted to do after that, her short reply-"kerja la, malas nak study study sama je nanti lepas study kena carik kerja". Aku angguk tapi kakak dia punya bebel punyala panjang.-"ko ingat x belajar senang ke nak carik kerja pakai air liur ko je??". huh aku tersengih je la malas nak camppur. tapi ade juga kebenaran dari kata kata kakak dia tu. Aku dengar je la kakak dia bebel.

.Women & Education.

1.So that x mudah ditipu oleh Lelaki/Majikan/Sesiapa.
yela skang ni lelaki kualiti pun kurang. asyik nak senang menipu je kerja. ade jugak aku kenal dengan beberapa orang ni ditipu bulat bulat oleh lelaki.Hah, bukan semua la ade setengah tu. Sian kan. so if the person tu ade education sikit, maybe lelaki tu pun agak agak la nak tipu. ye ah kang senang kantoi sebab mestila perempuan tu pun tahu serba sedikit pasal white lies yang kadang kadang aku dengar x masuk akal tapi percaya jugak dek perempuan ni. And majika jugak xleh la nak tipu, kata epf socso sumer membazir je x payah. ahaha x tahu ke penting semua tu. Ini kes betul pernah aku jumpa. Mungkin aku juga ade cetek ilmu jugak tapi sekurangnya aku sedar la.

2. Membantu suami/diri sendiri/keluarga.
OKay at least dia leh ringankan beban suami, skang ni kerja bukan senang. diploma pun diperlakukan cam kerja kerani pun kena ade dip. So cemana tu yang SPM. x kisah la kerja apa at least cam kawan aku cakap la,xdela ko kena bodoh bodoh je ngan ko nye majikan. gaji pun leh la mintak up sikit. Biasanya majikan paham. kalau org ade pelajaran ni pun kena la jugak dengan cara kerja. jangan kerja lak memain. mmg la kan kan kan.Then mana la tahu bukan mintak, husband terlibat ngan something x diingini or sekali tu husband tinggalkan terkapa ikapai at least ade jugak back up. Senang nak kerja kan.Hoh anak anak lebih terjaga.

3. Lebih menarik
Ye betul jugak.When u study, u mix around, it becomes a habbit you wanna know, learn more. Jadi ko ade je benda nak bincang berbual. Jadi senang nak bergaul ngan orang, maka banyak peluang terbuka. BUkan peluang yang x elok la, yg baik baik macam, kerja, business sense or what ever. orang pun xde la bosan berbual ngan ko.What ever pun SPM ke belajar tinggi tinggi ke must always keep your self updated ngan news or what ever la.

Jenuh la kawan aku bebel, aku pun sakit jugak telinga ni. ade jugak butir bicara dia terkena aku zass zass tapi sempat la dia kata- Sorry ah sesiapa jangan terasa.Siut tul!!! Yelakan dia kan ada SPM-(dialog dari Zombi Kampung Pisang).Anyway Thank You Wani sebab bagi aku kesedaran. Lepas ni aku nak sambung PHD.

Kawan aku ni x suka terms orang suka guna -" ala perempuan belajar tinggi mana pun ke dapur jugak". Marah dia woo.dia kata memang ke dapur .Lelaki pun leh ke dapur.Bezanya bukan kerja dapur je dia leh buat. yela wani ye.Saya setuju. Sempat lagi dia cakap aku. Ko kalau ko ade masa sambung la lagi belajar..ye la nanti ko sponsor aku kan. Ko kan dah KAya raya kuih Raya..Tukang masak pun kena belajar okay.Heheh aku no komen. Aku jarang masak..pftt!!

Setelah mendengar ceramah panjang dari kawan aku tu maka aku pun belogkan la benda ni 2 hari lambat sebab penat memproses apa dia cakap..hehehe

ps:: saya pun tidak suka bila org slalu samakan perempuan-masak jaga anak. Skang ni prempuan boleh buat banyak benda, yang some men sendiri x terlarat nak buat. x caya..tengok mom saya. dia superwoman.

::Refurbished Laptops from Overseas::

.Well my husband cousin have some Refurbished Laptops.

.Good condition, better than second hand.

.Comes with laptop carrier and new batteries.

.1 month warranty.

.At the price of RM 1,100.00 only.

.So if interested just reply my post or email to:: it_the_risk@yahoo.com.

::Fujitsu E8210::

Intel® Core(TM)2 CPU T7400 @ 2.16GHz
1GB RAM
160GB HDD
DVD-RW
Windows XP Professional

::Fujitsu S6310::

Intel® Core (TM)2 CPU T5500 @ 1.66GHz
1GB RAM
80GB HDD
DVD-RW
Windows XP Professional

::HP Compaq NX6320::

Intel® Core(TM)2 CPU T5600 @ 1.83GHz
512MB
80GB HDD
DVD-RW
Windows XP Professional

::Lenovo R60::

Intel® Core™ 2 CPU T5600 @ 1.83GHz
512MB RAM
80GB HDD
DVD-Combo
Windows XP Home Edition

::Lenovo T60::

Intel® Core™ CPU T2400 @ 1.83GHz
512MB RAM
60GB HDD
DVD-Combo
Windows XP Professional

::Lenovo X60::


Intel® Core™ 2 CPU T5600 @ 1.83GHz
512MB RAM
80GB HDD
DVD-Combo
Windows XP Home Edition

::My World:: Ombak and Laut::

.After Math dari Tsunami kat Jepun kot- Melaka Hujan.

.Angin kuat sangat dari malam semalam.

.Mau x seram aku tengok Tv kat hall sorang sorang xleh nak tido.

.Melaka :: 2100hrs, 25 celcius, Thunderstorm.

.Tadi masa on d way balik dari surau nampak awan berat laju bergerak ke arah laut.

.Ouh awan, dari mana nak ke mana?.

.Jika nak singgah kat sini harapnya berpada.

.Janganla sampai banjir kota melaka ni.Sianla kat kami.

.Awan tu hitam sangat tapi very low.

.Tsunami, dulu masa aku sekolah rendah pernah skali dengar pasal Tsunami.

.Cikgu cerita.Terbayang camana la ombat tu, ade ke?.

.Tertanya wujud ke ombak sebesar itu, nak tengok.

.Dulu cam susah sangat nak bayang Tsunami nye damage.

.Sekarang, Tsunami tu macam kereta Jaguar ke Van Scobby doo.

.X banyak tapi ade.Tahu jugakla bagaimana mala petaka dibawa.

.Sekarang, berdoa agar jangan la bertemu dengan Ombak sebesar 5 atau 6 tingkat ke atas.

.Sekarang ni Ombak sebesar 0.5 meter pun aku seram.

.Camana ni, nak pergi Kapas?Berkira kira. harap masa tu tiada gempa.

.Tiada bencana di negara negara Jiran yang akan mengugat.

.Hah dulu masa tsunami di Aceh, laut terus tercemar.

.jadi kotor, coral banyak mati.Jangan kata coral je,ikan, sotong kurita, udang, kuda laut sumer mati

.Harap Tsunami kat Jepun ni janganla gugat kecantikkan air di Timur sana.

.Saya nak pergi Snorkel snorkel.

.X snorkel pun nak mandi manda.

.Ingat lagi Tsunami tu, air laut kat sini dah cam air parit dah.

.Dengan sampah, bangkai ntah apa lagi

.Dari mana? Aceh ker? Bayangkan jauh dia bergerak.

.Semoga pantai disana dilindungi. hehehehhe.

::Kapas Island-ni la Jetty kat pulau kapas::

.takla sehebat Redang or Perhentian tapi tidak kurang cantik.

Sumber gambar dari :: http://buttet.wordpress.com/2010/09/16/pulau-kapas



::F.R.I.E.N.D.:: Yes that is Us::

.Yesterday my dear friend pass me a link to a journal wrote by someone .

.Who I can say quite influence.

.Selalunya bila ade link link dalam inbox ni malas betul nak baca.

.Sebab mostly is about "buat duit cara mudah".

.Note to self:: there is no such thing as an easy way up tanpa usaha and pain.

.She ask me, " Is this us?".

.As i read the blog, yeah aku pun tersedar, apa yang blogger itu terfikir sikit kurang sama.

.Apa dia and kawan dia lalui pun lebih kurng sama jugak la.

.And aku tersedar, maybe i have been neglecting my single mingle gorjes girlfriend.

.Maybe I dont often show or tell her or even ask her how she feels.

.But she is a true great friend, one in a million i wont trade her for anything.

.It's easy to plan anything with her cause she's always on the go.

.If she cant she will let me know and i am okay with it.

.Whenever she plans things, she always thinks about my situation- my 2 kids.

.My kids love her,  she plays with them, entertain them and take the trouble to even manage them when i am out of hand.

.I dont want her to think i a taking her for granted but i am most grateful.

.She alows me to have fun in my own boundaries.

.I never ask her how she feels.If with me having children does she feel  left out.

.I can brag, complain and tell her anything about my kids and she listens.

.Yes that is us, and that is what exactly it means.

.Just read and that is what we are too only not so high end la.

.To my Girlfriends there, thanks so much for tolerating us mommies.

.We wanna join in, have fun but sometimes we are limited.

.But because of girls like you all  who understands us well, we are able to.

.Dont leave us out on the latest news or gossip just because we have kids.

.We are still the same Kaki Gosip,Kaki lepak,Kaki Jalan, Kaki kongsi kisah hidup only with extra load.



.Hehehe...in erti kata lain.

.Thanks to Friendship.



::F.R.I.E.N.D:: Congrats New Mummy::



::Congrats to the mummy of this gorjes baby..this is For you::

Dear A,

Mesti ko happy kan, akhirnya lahir juga 'dia' ke dunia menatap wajah mummynya.Rasa macam semalam je ko cakap aku ko nak sangat jadi mummy, ko takut nak test, takut dikecewakan dengan palang merah dua kat test kit tu. Lihatlah..comel kan budak tu.

A, memang lepas bersalin ko penat, tapi x tertido kan. Cam eksited sangat tak terkata. Nak je tatap budak tu. Orang tua pulak asyik kata, rehat, tido nanti x cukup tido. Malam malam la cam paling best tengok budak kecik tu bersulam ngan kedamaian malam ko rasa cam ' aku la yang paling bertuah'.Memang ko bertuah pun.Tapi tido jugak betul cakap diorang tu. banyak lagi benda yang akan datang yang akan buat ko penat.Jadi bila si comel ni tido,tido la kau bersama samanya. Lepas ni ko balik rumah mesti ramai nak datang tengok ko, lagi x ter'rehat' jadi tidola kau bila ade peluang. tapi aku juga nak cakap, tatap je la dia selama mana ko nak. 9 bulan mengendong dia, susah payah ko bersakit melahirkan dia..ko ada hak sepenuhnya nak tatap dia lama mana. No one can say you Cant..ni satu satu anugerah etiap tahun pun ko punya. Aahahaha..

You, tittle mummy ni bukan senang kan nak dapat. Welcome to the club. Enjoy your first moments ngan dia sampai la dia besar. Bila dia besar nanti if dia nakal, mesti ko teringat balik time time cam ni.Jadi sayangla dia peluk la dia sekuat mana. and jadi la mummy yang paling hotss..paling best..paling sporting tapi jugak paling tegas.So gud luck to you. Am happy that you are happy.

.ME.

* aku tahu ko slalu bukak blog aku jadi aku post la senang ko nak baca apa aku nak kata.

::My World:: Penat seh!~~::

.Cakap ngan aku penat x penat jadi housewife ni.Bukan belog tuk complain tapi tempah aku luah penat siut. aku x tahu lak jdi housewife ni penat cam gini.

.Bangun Sofea nak susu.

.Buat simple bekfest, masak air mandi sofea, keluar baju dari mesin.

.Kemas rumah, mandi Sofea then Sarah.

.Sidai baju,mandi, pack baju untuk g kedai.

.Sampai kedai buat kerja sambil jaga Sarah and Sofea.

.Sarah ade super power, leh cakap nonstop sampai ko jadi bingung.

.X jawab soklan dia, dia xkan berhenti menyoal.

.Nak suh shadap, mak aku kata x baik budak kecik dia x paham.

.Kerja separuh jalan, sofea nak susu, sarah nak berak at the same time.

.Layan Sarah dulu pastu Sofea sebab Sarah kejap je.

.Sofea tido, Sarah nak kencing, Pulak.

.Idris naik for lunch.Okay makan.
.Tengah makan Sarah bebel, non stop.

.Balik sambung kerja kedai.Sambil chat ngan kengkawan mana sempat.
Sofea bangun nangis sebab sarah kejut.

.Dukung sofea, sarah nak g beli buah.

.Sarah nak kencing lagi.

.Sofea diam, sarah lak jatuhkan barang kat kedai.

.Tolong staff kemas, Idris nak g hantar barang.

.Kerja kat kedai x habis, ikut idris terus suh balik.

.Balik kemas rumah sebab pagi tadi Sarah dah sepah ngan mainan.

.Kemas dapur nak masak nanti.

.Sofea nangis nak makan, Sarah nak makan.

.Suap Sofea and bagi sarah snack.

.Bersepah Sarah makan, sofea dah comot.

.Mandikan Sofea, kemas apa sarah sepah.

.Sarah nak mandi, mandi sarah sofea dah jerit jerit nangis.

.*nota rumah masih x kemas and lom masak.

.Dah nak maghrib angkat baju.

.Sarah main mainan dia bersepah sini sana.

.Sofea tengok TV.

.Tengah nak siap masak, Sarah nak susu and roti.

.Sofea dah start merengek nak tido.

.Benti masak, bagi Sarah makan tidokan sofea.

.Boy, Mum and Adib datang.

.Sambil sembang sambi kemas rumah.

.Sarah jerit Sofea bangun. Back to square 1.

.Sambil lipat baju, sarah tengok tv. rock sofea dalam rocker.

.Sofea nangis nak susu, Sarah nak tido.

.baringkan semua kat katil tido.Dah pukul 10 jap g idris balik.

.Kemas cepat cepat rumah. Masak cepat cepat.

.Balik idris makan, kemas lepas makan.Habis lipat baju.

.Mintak buat air, penat la baru balik kerja.

.Dah buat air, on laptop nak rest dah kul 12.

.Jaan, i pun penat jugak. duduk rumah lagi x stop kerja.

.Sekurangnya kat kedai u xdela penat cam ni
.Cuma penat sebab xleh tido, xleh santai sangat.

.Kat rumah pun xleh. Jadi apa salahnya kasi la i duduk kejap and buat for me air teh.
wohoo..

ps:: bukan mengeluh saja nak luahkan kepenatan kat sini.

::Family O'mine:: Lihat dia..!!::

.Lihat dia, dalam jeans fit cam ni.

.Menawannya kaki siapa ni..hehehehe.

.Mana pernah dia pakai cam ni.

.Hari ni dia kata dia bosan pakai jeans dia.

.Jadi saya cabar dia pakai jeans saya.

.Ngehehehe yes muat sebab saya pinggul  'gorjes'-anak dah 2.

.Dia pinggang just nice.

.Yang ni pulak since 3 tahun dah nak melaram jer.

.Ask her to wear pants and something warmer x nak.

.Nak dress jugak. *sambil bagi reasoning aku pun x paham.

.dress panjang pulak tu.

.Ekceli ni dress for 6 years, sebab masa beli for 3 years dia melalak.

.Said its too short. X ke cam over sangat ni g kedai.

.Ade orang cakap cam nak pergi Hi tea je Sarah ni.

.Ni pulak, nak puting.

.Sarah dulu pakai no pacifier policy.

.Dengan yang ini x larat la.

.Hah tengok siap pegang lagi tu.

.Satu lagi dia ni nak always ade bau Idris dekat ngan dia.

ps:: post ni xkan lama ni sebab nanti mesti ade yang x approve..ngehehehehe.Psst jangan cakap dia obvious sangat.

::My World::Selamat hari Wanita::

.Ouh Today womans day jugak.

.Patutla aku tengok TV sumer citer pasal perempuan.

.So aku nak wish.

.Selamat Hari Wanita kepada semua wanita di luar sana.

.Tak kira la muda, tuda, single, mingle, berkarier,xde kerja,whatever.
.Muslim, Budhist,Christians, all races and religion.

.Salute to all the women for their contribution and support.

.Openly we know, women yang melahirkan generasi baru dan juga pemimpin pemimpin ternama dunia.

.To the Single Working Ladies.

.For their support and contribution to the economic of the country.

.To the labour industry and making themself equal to men.

.Being tough at work at the same time so gentle to others.

.To the Married Woman.

.For giving birth to the world next generation.

.For taking care and providing all the basic anyone needs in life.

.It starts a the early age of a BABY.

.Mendidik dan penyumbang utama insituisi kekeluargaan negara.

.Tangan yang mengoncang buaian bisa mengoncang dunia.

.To the Married Working Woman.

.I salute you the most.

.To work and take care of a Family is not a simple task or as learning ABC.

.With a carrier at stake you still made trough all the hardship of working.

.Mengahadap boss kat tempat kerja pastu menghadap boss kat rumah.

.Menyelesaikan kerja di pejabat and rumah.

.You are countries gem.

.Bukan senang tau jadi wanita.

.nampak je kerja tu senang.

.Mak aku kena warded 2 hari je.

.Ayah aku dah kelam kabut kat rumah.

.Nak buat kerja rumah nampak cam senang tapi x pernah berabis okay.

.Jadi wanita single pun bukan senang.

.Ade je orang nak kata macam macam.

.Kekadang kena tindas pun ye and they have to fight for their own rights.

.Pernah x korang dengar lelaki single kena macam mcam.

.Xde kan kan kan??.

.And yet they survive.

.Jadi cheers to us all Ladies.

ps:: malam ni ladies nite kat rumah aku so means husband aku masak yeay!!

::Family O'mine:: Letter for Sarah-3 years today::

Dear Sarah,

Its your birthday again. I know everytime you birthday mommy write for you this long blog saying the same old things. Mommy just want you to know, that you mean a lot to me and since the day you were born Everything about you matters to Mommy.I hope in years to come you will be able to read all of this in this blog. I hope by that time, this blog still exist. We just got back from Rastafari-where papa works. Your sister Sofea has fallen asleep with her puting and I just put in you in your bed. Before this we met Mamu Nizam which pass you Aunty Shan's and his gift. They love you very much and never forget your birthday.I consider them your Godparents or next to kin guardians.All of us are tired, and since now mommy have time , mommy decided to write you this blog.Mommy has put so much thought in here. But there is more to come.

Sayang, 3 years ago at the time like this, mommy was already admitted cause the doctor said you needed to come out early.The water beg, which you lived in for almost 9 months in mommy was leaking.Papa from shop sent you Dada Nizam and Mamu Fareeq back home and came back to wait with Mommy. Yes when you were born Dada Nizam was here.Before that our ride (Black Hilux) was stolen so we use Atuk's car to go between places.But Papa could not come in to labour room to wait together because he had not gone for the course. tsk!~ Papa la like to wait till last minute. But he waited outside sleeping on a very uncomfortable bench, had no dinner , no bath cause didnt want to miss you coming into the world.He waited fo 14 hours never leaving the labour room far from sight.But the moment he went back for bath and to take your Dada Nizam, mommy delivered you. Papa was frustrated but he quickly came back to accept you out from labour. But again he went to meet DADA and you came out from delivered. From then on papa never left your side. He wanted to see you open your eyes. And again, he felt asleep beside you and you open your eyes.
All of your family were there, Atuk, Mimma, Dada & Dadi. your macik macik  and uncles came from KL, JB and Singapore to see you.

Sarah, your one year old birthday was celebrated with all those that really matter to you. All those that care and love you so much. Mimma made a big cake and Aunty Pat decorated it with a beach Scene. You had many gifts. By 1 year you could say lot of words. A very obersevant girl, obidient but also stubborn. You could say Papa, Mama,Mimma, Air, mamam, Ban Ban(Pisang) and lots more.You enjoy water very much. Pantang Jumpa air. Trough your one year you could speak perfect sentencesses.Before your next birthday you could talk non stop. You amuse everyone you met. And you were chubby and plum. All came across you would carry you, pinch your cheeks, tickle you. you had a wonderfull 1st year put aside the time you were admitted to the Hospital because of Stomach Flu. You Stayed in the Hospital for 3 days and mommy was worried sick. Felt like mommys life been suck out and kept in a bottle. mommy stayed in the Hospital with you and papa came everytime he had the time. He was so tired but still he came to see you.

By your second birthday, we had no formal celebration. But still you were showered with gifts. You celebrated your birthday 3 times. With Papa once, yours and again when Your Aunty Adiha celebrated hers. Ouh i forgot to tell you, this 2 people share the same birth month as you. Especially your papa was the one most excited that you and him had something in common. By 2 years, your lilttle personality has grown. talking in more proper and grown up manner. sometimes i wonder where you get all those ideas. papa like to teach you nonsense and you became as cheeky as he is. By this time mommy was expecting you lil sister and you were very excited. Asking me every day when will she be out. I love you more and adore you. you were my little angel. mommy was worried with the baby, i would not have time for you and so mommy spend every time mommy had with you. We had a very great time together. Mommy would bring you on bus rides to KL and meet up with some of Mommies closes dearest friend. Aunty Zakiah and Aunty Nenek were no stranger to you. You use to love talking to them and always ask me about them.Mommy brought you to movies as now you could understand better and loves to watch TV. Your hair long and curly

This is your 3rd year, you have grown beutifully. A good sister and very understanding. you are the cure to all my pains and wounds. When i see you i feel so relieve.Tough you talk so much sometimes Mommy ask you to stop but i just like listening to you. You have a little sister now who looks up to you and from her eyes adores you. Smiles and laugh when you are around.We scold you cause you also have become very naughty and smarter. Sometimes you outsmart us. But that is normal. We check you because we love you and want you to become a better person.

Sarah Sayang, mommy doakan you grow up at the right path. making right choices (though u kecik lagi, mommy doakan mommy x salah didik you la). Doakan you jauh dari sakit sakit, everytime you sakit, mommy lagi double sakit.Mommy doakan you jadi budak bijak, hormat orang around you, x payah cantik sangat asalkan you tahu siapa you, asal usul you and you pandai bawak diri. you also must pandai belajar okay. Always remember who you are, where you're from, Your roots is what makes you you. well for now you are to young to understand but one day i hope you do. Always berpijak di bumi yang nyata sayang.

Happy Birthday Sarah Daania Angullia my little Beutifull Princess!Mommy love you very much. You are the reason i am a Mommy today and i will love you, care for you till my dying day.

Love, Hugs and Kisses,

Your Mommy.

::My World:: March March Marching By::

.March In Feb out.

.Not even a week and so much has happen.

.Husband turn 29, the last of the 20's.

.I totally forgot in the morning.

.Sorry so much Sayang, what was i thinking.

.Jeling jeling pulak dalam kereta, yeah la i know.

."Happy Birthday to you".Jeling jugak lagi apasal??.

.I miss my siblings so much i wish them home.

.Then mom broke her hand one morning in the garden.

.She was chasing the cats which was chasing the chicken.

.Who should i blame for mum's broken hand??.

.She was crying on the phone after it happen.

.I was having lunch with husband and kids.

.We drop everything and rush but Papa was the 1st to arrive.

.Tsk Tsk..major operation on Saturday.

.10 hours woo..my brother said he can go back to Kedah and she will still be in OT.

.Since mum's hand broke, my sister and brother rush back home from KL.

.My brother who has not been back for 4 months at last arrive.

.Sarah was the happiest one to see her uncle.

.My sister back to..all of us together but things are not in good terms between them both.

.Haish..how do i patch this up.

.I am still angry at one for neglecting his duties.

.By i am also hoping the other one would give in by just talking.

.Growing up is strange. It was much easier when we were small.

.Since March, i had lot to do. Running the house,tending to 2 kids.

.Now adding on is to help my mom to recover.

.Nyesal pulak x amik lesen when i had the chance.

.Now boleh but.... not the right time.

.Nadiah, sis when u come back remember ah..we go classes together.

::My World:: Day in Day out::

.Slept well, this 2 girls got up really late.

.Father in law in town, drop by and had lunch.

.Did some wood varnishing with husband, my hands are wood stained now.

.Slept in the afternoon again, not on purposed was feeding sofea and i fell asleep.

.Went to shop, its early of the month, PAY day.

.Brought Sarah to Hair Affairs, had her hair cut.

.Will upload pictures of her soon.

.She said " Mcm dalam TV yang model model tu kan ma"- Tyra make over.

.Too much America'x next top model for her.

.Husband proud of his wood work, started to construct before the shop hours end.

.Tommorow is husband birthday, had not forgotten to wish him but he is so blur!!~.

.Night had Thai dinner for 2 cause both girls asleep already.

.Thats all for today.



::Anger Management::Conflict of Interest::

.You said " Good Job, well done", then PAY UP.

.You said, you like the way the job was done and was better than expected then PAY UP.

.You said, " You can do the job better than i could", then PAY UP.

. You dont delay payment when job was done perfectly.

.You dont let someone suffer after all the hard work they have done for you.

.If the job was not done the way you wanted it, NOTIFY.

.But than you promise Salary and Salary is what you have to give.

.Everyone work for a living, there is a reason why we work.

.There is commitments need to be settled.

.If we didnt need money, we would have just sit back and slouch.

.Slack all the way like nobodies business.

.If you are not satisfied, show how it suppose to be done.

.You dont just let the person work on for you and you are unhappy.

.In the end the person working for you suffers, you dont even care.

.You say that is Blood ties, conflict of interest.

.Dont let personal things judge someones work.

.You have nothing to do with the person personal life.

.You only comitted to the person by job.

.If you say its because its related that you are not being profesional.

.You are doing this to a relative by flesh, by blood.

.If this is also the reason you say you are being taking advantage of.

.The same thing you are doing, because its family you let it slip by.

.This is un ethical, family or not, friends or foe.

.Work is done Pay Up.

.And if you are not PAID, leave.

.Cause there are other works out there, you need to try and seek.

.God is not cruel he will not leave you hanging.

.But he wants you to try as hard as you can before he steps in.

.People take you for granted they think you are small.

.Sometimes you need to step up to show that you are tall.

.You dont do this to strangers, more else you shouldnt do this to family.

.Act up.

ps:: sorry is some of you might feel this post is related but it I am just letting out my oppinion before my heart and head explode.I might not know the right situation that is going on. But by fair what ever it is..if its done..its done.