#MyFamily- A Wonderful Saturday

Happy birthday Aunty Laurine. Despite the hassle happening in the center of town we had our own fun. Our cousin came up to have a birthday celebrated here. She wanted so bad to get the taste of the famous Swensens Earthquake that she use to bring us when we were kids in Singapore. Thank god for Swensens opening in KL. We hit Solaris Dutamas a very quiet and pleasant place at 11 am. Imagine that, heavy food and Ice cream early in the morning. My daughters Favourite.

After the nice meal of baked cheese spaghetti and meatballs, mu kids shared the meal with me and my husbands double cheese burger. The portioning was too much too handle.My sister and her husband came along and we chit chattered for about 3 hours. Then husband headed to work in town which he grumble all the way on phone cause of the closed roads and we (the rest) headed to Publika Dutamas for cupcakes and WonderMilk. Awesome cupcakes. 

We went to Ikea later as Nt Laurine wanted to get some things before heading back to my condominium for a nice swim. Around 3 we finish at Ikea and we headed to O'Briens for a light snack and salad (only nt laurine ate Salads). Met up with Zura's friend and bride to be Tuty with Fiance, watch some belly dancing troop at the Curve and we headed back home around 4.30, change our clothes and swam our aching feet out. 

Aunty Laurine went back at 6pm. We (zura, me, wan and the kids) decide to drive back to Sri Kembangan and get some of my sisters things for a sleep over. Just in time dearest Hubby came back cause he got bored at the shop with no walk in customer and the regular said they will come next week as its so hard to go today. So we headed to SK and after that to Ampang for Sate at Sate Station. I was really bloated. Eating too much beef. Went home, kids tired and asleep and me and zura had a go with the PS3 playing old time games such as Street of Rage 3 which we use to play on Sega Nintendo before with Nadiah & Danial our very closed friendfs and neighbours.After 30 minutes we gave up and the guys had their chance playing GT5. Me on my lappy and my sister in bed. Well about to sleep now. 

AND that is how a good Saturday is spend.

#MyWorld-Bersih 3.0..whats next? 3.5G?

Bersih 3.0 is really a pathetic excuse for some people to spend their Saturday. First of all what is BERSIH if after the 'Peacefull' Rally the place is messier than a dumpster?. Come one, you are rallying about BERSIH and yet you have succeeded to make it one of the KOTOR place. Don't you know, its not only about you. think about the tourist and people who are in tourism, people in other private sectors, yang carik makan sendiri or maybe the DBKL workers who have to work over time to clean up your mess.Can you compensate them on their loss? Shame on you, call yourself Bersih when the basic things like picking up after yourself x boleh buat.Get yourself organize. Form a BERSIH team to clean up the mess after.

I am not either side but I don't get your purpose. I respect Kit Siang and Nik Aziz's views on certain things. I also respect our PM' vision of what he wants Malaysia to be. These people have gone trough a lot and they are wise and have good oppinions in their own way to be considered by voters or so. BERSIH, you did 2.0 yes i did get that. But now 3.0. Whats after this 4.0? if you gonna make it annually please fix a date  each year..so that i can arrange my agenda's in future on another  date. Yes for me to join in and sit at home and BERSIHKAN my home. That is something you get satisfaction out. Not some silly thing at the end of the day you get bad reviews about your own country. The place where you live. If this was in the old days...you have been banished. The world heard you, but not as some heroic act, some life comedy and something for them to laugh about. My cousins in other places with NOT MALAYSIAN nationality was asking me, Whats wrong with Malaysia?...Doh.....i am ashamed of you..not my country.

You think you are doing every Malaysian a favour but remember you are also not doing some your own fellow friends a favour. Not all think like you so please stop referring BERSIH as a delegate for ALL MALAYSIAN. Not all MALAYSIAN thinks like you think.Not all Malaysian wants a stupid rally like Bersih did. Please do not assume that Bersih thinks it knows what each and every Malaysian wants in their life.  I was in the lift and a very elderly kakak assume i was bringing my kids for the rally. Ada otak x?my kids??Let them decide when they grow up. she was going of course with her bright yellow shirt nearly blinded me..She ask me,' X pergi sokong bersih ke?' SO  i replied, ' X nampak ke saya pakai baju BIRU'. She kept quiet. I told my daughter, we had better things plan then to bawak anak berpanas.Nanti demam siapa susah. Sarah look at me and said..Mother...clever girl!~~ And the lady, she look down, walk out the lift as fast as she could like i would harass her all the way to her car. Please la..i dont waste my time.

Bersih supporters i know come from varies of background,some are okay, they are peacefull but those that act like monkeys harassing others,harassing  the authority is that needed. Is that what Bersih is about. X Bersih hati and kata kata. Hah..!~And most of you like to say thing but when it is said back to you, you cant take it.even if the person told back at you with a most graceful and respectful manner....ahh how can ever BERSIH work if you have this attitude. I support peacefull rally yang x menyusahkan orang lain yang berkecuali...but those yang like nak ada pesta songkran ni saja carik peluang buat haruk pikuk. Imagine if something bad happen to your own family member, how would you feel?.

mode: okay sebab Bersih x kacau my plans for the weekend.

#MyFamily-The nEws of Cookie.

Everything happens for a reason. I am a person who believes when things don't turn out how I plan, means he the Almighty have better plans for me and made it that way, cause he knows best when to add spices in your life and when to pull out the fun.

Yeay! I conceive and expecting again. Much much earlier than expected. Dear girls I have. Mommy wants you to have brothers and sister to play with. To share your ups and downs to fight and to love of course. Cause family no matter how the storm will come and go, family will always be family. Mommy plan to add on another family member in a years time but ALLAH knows best and he said, ' No you are ready now and its better to have it now than later'. So he sent me  baby 'Cookies'

Yaya  gave the nick cookie as we dont know if its a boy or a girl.Mommy pun x understand why but Sofea nodded in agreement when Yaya told her to call the baby cookie. I am due in November, again another scorpion king or queen same as my feisty Sofea. Sofea will be 2, yes i pity her, but she isn't clingy like Yaya was when i had Sofea. The only difference is she became more mischievous but still a cute darling.Its hard to get angry with her when she shows you that cute little smile.

Yaya is totally not bothered. She doesn't feel insecure and i guess have accepted the idea of more little baby brothesr and sisters for her to boss around. Yes she is bossy. Sofea however doesn't care and thats the reason they always quarrel. But i like watching them making up and the love they have. They hug each other in the morning and Yaya will make Sofea laugh. Sofea will hug Yaya and kiss her. I hope this goes on till they grow up.

Thats for now...will write some more about cookie soon.

#MyWorld-Skynet Courrier..rate: WORST SERVICE.

IF YOU EVER HAVE A

PARCEL

 Or if you HAVE A VERY VERY IMPORTANT 

DOCUMENT OR LETTER

You might want to stay away from SKYNET COURIER SERVICE. The worst service I ever encounter. Not only they are not reliable, they lack of knowledge and not familiar with the area, rude and ridiculously slow. One thing else..sangat la Lazy to look up things related to their job.

My experience with SKYNET. I have always used Pos Laju or DHL for their service but since SKYNET came into the area and it was convenient (cause they have this counter really near the outlet), i decided to try. The biggest mistake ever. The item was to be sent to on  within the state itself. Only 50KM away and it took more than a week...i repeat MORE THAN A WEEK. 

Their reason, the address was not right and we did not provide the receiver's phone number. Well the item is a gift and our customer wanted no contact with the receiver so we put in our number instead. But screw you SKYNET. You did not even call us to say that you couldn't deliver on time or ask for the way to the address. You only ask us when we call you to ask why haven't the parcel arrive ON TIME. 1 or 2 days delay i would have tolerated. Just imagine if we did not call, you would have kept that item for yourself or maybe 2,3 months later deliver is it? Or were you waiting for us to call cause you are so damn lazy to do your job. I google the address and i could find it. How come of all people A COURIER SERVICE like you couldn't.don't u have any maps, or gps or just a PC for you delivery guys to check. Dont give me foolish reasons. 

Their customers service, huh...worst ever. First of all its not centralized. You call HQ and they check where is your parcel headed and they ask you to call that center. Dah la very rude, and dare you question me why i never ask the customer the phone number.YOU QUESTION ME??? Hello i am using your service.IF i want to give my moms number is also my PASAL wat??...My customer made it clear its a gift u moron!!!..I used post laju and dhl and they dun have any problem if i dun put in the person number. They always find a way to deliver. Never once they call me to ask where is this place. Imagine that. SKYNET ask me where is this place and how to get there. If i knew and i had the time would i use your service?? MALAS sangat!.

So at last we apologize to the customer and ask for the person contact number. SKYNET first had the nerve to ask us to ask the customer to come and pick up.So we got the contact number and SKYNET called the person up. The receiver said it was the right address but SKYNET  said to the customer. NO you have the wrong address we cant find that address. Ade ke..the customer is staying there. OF COURSE LA DIA TAHU ALAMAT DIA. Korang rasa korang JABATAN PERANCANGAN BANDAR ker????Yes we did loose our patience and we yelled. We don't normally  do that, how would not we loose it when your customer service are rude, not doing they job and questioning us as if we did not do our job!! Go for customer service skill training la....

When we ask for a refund and return item, they said they will return the item...but tengok la today or tommorow? Ade ke macam tu?...Ask for refund...x boleh. But why not, we use your service but you did not complete the task. We paid for the items to reach the customer but you did not do that. Cam tu senang la, amik x hantar, hantar balik and duit simpan...Menyampah. Never will i Use this service..very UNRELIABLE. Pakai normal post pun lagi laju!!!..

#MyLife-April Showers...

I haven't blogged for a long time. I have so many drafts but never been post. There is no passion for writing lately. April, this month normally is one of my favorite months but this year it only brings tears and pain, sadness and suffering.

Started off with Dadi suddenly gone into coma on Tuesday, and then Mr Zuzupine pass away on Saturday. After 6 days in deep coma, Dadi dijemput Illahi. For most of us in the family, the pain is unbearable and it took all of our semangat out. It was so sudden. Dadi we planned so many happy things with you. Allah lebih mengetahui. Kita hanya merancang. Then my staffs Grandmother pass away the following friday. He was shaken and we called him, he was trying to control his tears..One of my closest Friends mom pass away on the following thursday...i was sick for 2 days from severe gastric and abdominal pains which i thought would not end. 

April has not end, but i dunno what yet Allah has planned for us. This is all his test for our patience, our lack of faith in him. What i learn is, no matter how we love someone or something, to the creator it will return and kita akan rasa kehilangan ..and only the love for god and his teaching is the one that kekal abadi and would not hurt you in the end.

Me: I do not want to plan so much for the future cause I know he has planned better for me. But i will live for the future one day at a time as he has planned for me.

#MyFamily-She is loved and will be missed.

If you spend you life working hard, being with your piers and neglecting your family, this is a very bad investment. Cause when you pass away, you colleagues will just get a new co-worker, your company will replace you and your friends will remember you for a short while. But the family you neglected will have the hole in their heart and suffer the terms on missing you forever and could never replace you.You will always be in their prayes, their minds and thought no matter how many years may pass.....

We learn from Dadi, family comes first. Always protecting the FAMILY.

Dear Dadi,

Thank you for loving me unconditionally. Excepting me for who i am and always ask about me though you didn't have to. Thank you for remembering my favorite drink in the morning, my favorite weather and my what i like to eat. You didn't have too. I am sorry i couldn't be by your bedside, i am sorry i couldn't hold your hand.

I would miss you so much. Singapore means blank to me now you are not there. I would miss the morning i get up and have breakfast with you in your cosy room overlooking the nice morning view. I would miss you disturbing me and Idris about things that might have happen. I would miss you worrying how would i manage with the kids if i go out on my own, worrying about how would i cope.I can tell you i have a headache, or a minor cramp or anything and you will always try to get something to ease the pain. Sometimes i just like to joke with you and see you laugh.

'Dah makan x?', 'Pergi mana, penat ke. Pergi tidola',' Budak budak biar Dadi jaga Maria pergi rehat'. Things that seem so simple to anyone means alot to me. But i never followed what you said. How could i let you take care of the kids when i should be the one looking over you. I miss you rubbing my hand when i hold your hand. I miss you looking at me and the warm smile you give. And everytime i go home and you have tears in your eyes, i feel so sad.I am happy i spend the 8 days in Febuary with you. I felt those were the most awesome days i had in Singapore. For the short term i knew you, you accepted me in the family with open arms.Everyone was equally loved. There were no faults in your eyes, You only see the good in us.

May ALLAH blessed you soul Dadi. May you be among the people that he loves the most. Dont worry about us here Dadi.We have learn a lot from you  and we will carry on. I have a very bad ache in my heart. Its like its so heavy and sad and it hurts. You will be missed Dadi. Forgive me dadi for everything. Halal makan minum Dadi and thank you for looking after my Husband when he was little. Thank you Dadi.Thank you Dadi.

Love Always,

Maria wife to Idris Angullia.

I am lucky i had that 8 days with you. I love you Dadi..goodbye.
Al Fatihah to Sarahbi Angullia.