#MyWorld-Hilangnya 1 cahaya Mata.

.Nurul Nadirah.Rest in Peace.

Read about the missing kid in Johor. Rasa sedey, marah, and traumatised. I keep thinking how if it happen to my kids. I will be devastated.My life will be black and white without colours.

The reason the mother was not aware of her missing daughter earlier on because she was on FB. This caused an uproar.Semua orang marah. Sampai kilaf x pandang diri sendiri pun sama. Also peringatan for me. People condemn her with harsh words. But to think back, we are humans.Semua ada nafsu, ada naluri even a perfect mother. Dia dalam pantang lagi so maybe sebab tu dia berehat. Eh come ne, berapa ramai ibu ibu dalam pantang berFB? jangan cakap tak, ah ramai cause they cannot do much.  My husband say i am trying to defend people on FB cause I also go on FB. Some ibu without FB pun pernah hilang anak so this is not the main issue.Fathers also loose their child even though they are not on FB.

Silap si ibu is to ask a 5 year old GO ALONE. She should be accompanied by a neighbour, a sibling, her father. When i posted that link, there were some friend giving their comments by posting on my link and some trough FB chat. Most of them have 2 children, 1 child. Dia ni anak dah 3 to add she is a young mothher.And you nak bermegah sebab you have done a great job. Not today maybe tommorow my friend. Things can just turn around at you.They lashed out words like "..dah jadi baru nak sesal buat apa, nak nagis pun x guna, siapa suruh leka.". To me, senang la cakap sebab kau x rasa. Cuba u put yourself in their shoes.I did and it felt painful just to think of something like that happening to me. Apatah lagi if truly happen. How would you fee? Cukup la you cakap dia salah. FullStop. Jangan torment dia with other words.Dah la dalam pantang, and to face this, ibu itu cukup kuat.

I agree with the writer. Kenapa nak salahkan ibu je. We as masyarakat, we x prihatin. Ada some of my friends cakap.' Hire la maid kalau tahu x mampu nak jaga banyak.',' Buat anak nak, jaga x tahu.'. I was disappointed sikit with this friend of mine. Itukan rezeki tuhan, how to say tak nak. Ibu ayah dia x mengeluh pun cuma terlalai sikit saja. Parents mana x lalai? Cuba look at your child,yang kena gigit, scar jatuh, lebam jatuh all shows the imperfection of you as a parent. Jadi kenapa nak salahkan ibu ni. Ah yes, yang nak suh hire maid. You maybe can afford, Have you thought bout others? Nak anta Taska pun x selamat sampai kena balut2. Abih maid x pernah ke dera anak dia? salah siapa kalau kena dera? Salah Maid?..x salah ibu sebab x jaga sendiri!. So no one is good.

What i am curious is where is the Father during this and why was he remanded for? Orang slalu cakap, jaga anak is tanggungjawab ibu. Salah, is ayah dan ibu. But always ibu akan try to handle as much as they can. Fathers nowdays, you should take interest in your kids from babies. Create that bond. Sebab your child is your future, your assets, the one that will pray for you here after. Know you kid from small, is not easy tau. You fathers some come back from work and see your kids all cleaned up and ready for bed, but you dont know what a mother goes trough so that your kids will be contented as they are when you come back.Its no office work staying at home

And the killer, tergamak ko buat budak kecil macam tu. If i had the power to change ruling and if it happen to me. I penjarakan that killer in my house for a year and torture and torment him sepuas hati. Sampai he wished he didnt do it and he wished he was dead, then i let him go to prison. Still that would not heal the wound of missing my baby and makes me..lagi teruk dari dia kan. Tapi itu kalau ikut perasaan tanpa fikir la.