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Friday, February 25, 2011

::My World::Plan, Planning, Planner, Planned::

"A first-rate Planner is never in a hurry. He is never late. He always keeps up his sleeve a margin for the unexpected."-Arnold Bennet

.I said:: You can plan how your whole life would be ahead, but yet to come is his blessing from above::.

.B4 i got married, my hubby and me plan ahead what would our life would be.
.We would be living together, a trip to Langkawi after 3 months getting Married.
.Return i'll find a slow pace job to keep me busy.Move in to our house.
.Then think of having babies.Getting our home furnished.
.Fullstop. We ended there.
.But 'HE' who knows best, the Almighty said, yeah not bad planning but this is what I have installed for you.
.3 weeks after tying the knot i found out i was preggie.
.Dont get me wrong it was the most awesome news ever.
.Orang tua kata awal pregnant jangan jalan jauh.SO x pergi mana.
.6 months after married life begun, we lost our car.
.Couldnt go anywhere.Cause we plan when we have babies we stay focus.
. Hah that means new car, new installment, new debt. haish.
.Then work was out of the list as, how to start a new work when you're pregnantr.
.Orang x amik kerja..diskriminasi jugak kan.But because nanti lepas 9 months kena cari Temp ganti.
. We move in to our house after 2 months Lil Sarah was born.
.By that time we had differ things going on, differ things to plan. Differ way of thinking.
.Money was divided to home, baby and us.
.Time was divided to baby, us and the rest.
. But i have no complains. This went out well too.
.I had lots of fun along the way. Learn a lot of things and when alot of places.
 I only wish that i did not plan so hard.
.So that when thing unexpected comes i can at least fit things in.

.Always leave room for the Maybe,What if and Suddenly.
.As a Muslim you can plan all the things, but you also have to seek in him for guidance and he is the one who knows best.
.My husband and me now take the Kamikaze approach.
.Apa tu? haha kalau ade duit ade masa nak pergi, pergi je..jangan plan plan.
.When you have what it takes thats the best time to go.
.That is probally the way of god telling us. okay you can go now you have no plans for now.
.Go before i have another thing installed for you.
.Now i have 2 children and yes we travel, we do some light planning.
. some might say ah leceh la dah dua.
.But we dont let that get in our way.Why make something so simple so hard.
.Husband and wife.You got him and he got you. Work things out.

.No matterwhat you are at this point of Year.
 Either you are married or single.
.Divorce or even enggaged. You are in this situation for a reason.
.he has better plans for you.
.do not feel low, or at points end.
 in any way you are, there is always fun and goodness if you are willing to be open or positive about it.
.Ahaha..this is my life, from my eyes.
. A simple servant of god looking at things a positive way.






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